Ip, Patrick v. Chan Meanne Ching Man
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1. The Plaintiff and the Defendant were colleagues at the University of Hong Kong (the “ University ”). The crux of their dispute in this case concerns with the “Heads of Agreement” signed by the Parties on 26 July 2019 (the “ Heads of Agreement ”), which contained the terms on which they agreed to settle matters arising from the breakdown of their romantic relationship. The background leading to the signing of the Heads of Agreement can be summarized as follows.
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DCCJ 1717/2024 [2025] HKDC 1578 IN THE DISTRICT COURT OF THE HONG KONG SPECIAL ADMINISTRATIVE REGION CIVIL ACTION NO 1717 OF 2024 -----------------------------
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------------------------- JUDGMENT ------------------------- A. INTRODUCTION AND BACKGROUND 1.The Plaintiff and the Defendant were colleagues at the University of Hong Kong (the “University”). The crux of their dispute in this case concerns with the “Heads of Agreement” signed by the Parties on 26 July 2019 (the “Heads of Agreement”), which contained the terms on which they agreed to settle matters arising from the breakdown of their romantic relationship. The background leading to the signing of the Heads of Agreement can be summarized as follows. 2.On or around 20 August 2018, the Plaintiff was informed by the Equal Opportunity Officer of the University Equal Opportunity Unit that the Defendant had lodged a complaint against the Plaintiff regarding the Plaintiff’s alleged conducts which could be broadly classified as sexual assault and harassment (the “Complaint”). 3.According to the University’s policy, when a formal complaint by a staff member is lodged against another staff member, the complainant and respondent would first be required to attempt to resolve the matter by mediation, and only if they failed to reach settlement through mediation would the University commence formal disciplinary proceedings in respect of the complaint lodged. 4.On 26 July 2019, the Parties entered a written “Agreement to Mediate”, whereby they agreed to resolve their dispute through mediation. 5.On the same day, the Parties attempted mediation through mediator Ms Sala Sihombing, and the Defendant agreed to withhold her complaint pending the outcome of the mediation. 6.The mediation was successful, and the Parities signed the Heads of Agreement to record the terms on which they had agreed to resolve their dispute. 7.Clause 1 of the Heads of Agreement provides: -
8.Various duties of the Parties were then set out in the Heads of Agreement, which were to be performed within the stated number of days “after the signing of the Mediation Agreement”. As shall be explained more fully below, the Defendant alleges that the Heads of Agreement is not legally enforceable. 9.Despite the efforts of the mediator in having the Mediation Agreement signed, it became clear by 27 November 2019 that the Defendant would not sign the Mediation Agreement as drafted by the mediator, which led to the Plaintiff’s claim in the current proceeding seeking specific performance of the Heads of Agreement. 10.Despite having made a counterclaim, the Defendant was absent at trial, leave having been granted for her solicitors to cease to act shortly before the trial commenced. The Court’s clerk attempted to contact the Defendant to ascertaining her intention as to whether she would attend the trial or not, including notifying the ex-solicitors of the Defendant and requested them to inform the Defendant that that trial has commenced. However, those attempts were to no avail, and the Defendant did not appear at trial. 11.Pursuant to O.35 rule 1 of the Rules of the District Court (Cap.355H), the trial proceeded in the absence of the Defendant. The Plaintiff and a total of 11 other witness were called to give evidence for the Plaintiff. As the Defendant and her witnesses did not attend Court to give evidence, I shall expunge their witness statements from the trial bundles and dismiss the Defendant’s counterclaim. What remains to be dealt with is the Plaintiff’s claim. B. THE PARTIES’ CASE B1. The Plaintiff’s Case 12.The Plaintiff has been a Clinical Associate Professor in the Department of Pediatrics and Adolescent Medicine, Li Ka Shing Faculty of Medicine at the University. 13.The Parties’ relationship has gone through many ups and downs. According to the Plaintiff, the communications between the Parties were reflected largely in the email exchanges between them, which served to explain the various incidents that happened over the span of their relationship. 14.It is not disputed that the Parties first met in an event named “International Behavioral Health Conference BeHealth 2016” held in January 2016 organized by the Hong Kong Society of Behavioural Health at the Prince of Wales Hospital, where the Parties were both speakers. The Defendant, at that time, was a professor working at the University of Toronto, Canada. 15.In or around August 2016, the Defendant applied for the position of Assistant Professor in the School of Public Health (Behavioural Health Division) of the University and emailed the Plaintiff seeking his advice. Parties started to communicate regularly by email, Skype, and phone about professional, as well as personal matters. 16.In around November 2016, the Defendant visited Hong Kong again to attend an interview and career talk at the School of Public Health. According to the Plaintiff, the Defendant stayed in a flat that the Plaintiff arranged for a week, during which the Parties developed a sexual relationship. They soon became involved in an intimate relationship with each other, which lasted until around July 2018. The nature and duration of their relationship was disputed by the Defendant, which I shall address in the next part. 17.It is not disputed that from 30 December 2016 onwards, the Defendant came to Hong Kong from Canada and stayed in the Bauhinia Apartment in Sheung Wan, which the Plaintiff rented for the Defendant under her name. 18.In January 2017, the Defendant moved to a rented apartment on Conduit Road, Mid-levels. The rental agreement was signed on 20 January 2017 at the monthly rent of HK$29,000. The Plaintiff paid HK$87,000 in total being the two-month deposit and the first month’s rent. 19.The Plaintiff continued to pay for the subsequent monthly rents in addition to the utility bills for the Defendant’s home, until when the Defendant had a stable employment and income from the University in November 2017. 20.Initially, the Defendant was not aware that the Plaintiff was married. The Defendant found out that the Plaintiff was married in around late January 2017, whereupon the Defendant went to visit the Plaintiff’s office at the Queen Mary Hospital (“QMH”) and asked about this marital status. 21.On 17 February 2017, the Defendant sent an email to the Plaintiff with formal greetings “Gooding evening Dr. Ip” and signed off as “Meanne”. In the email, the Defendant informed the Plaintiff she was looking for jobs in the USA and Singapore. She asked the Plaintiff to provide his bank account so that her dad could deposit funds to pay him back in relation to the rents. 22.On 19 February 2017, the Defendant sent an email to the Plaintiff’s brother, Saimond, informing Saimond that she had been in a romantic relationship with the Plaintiff, and expressed her worries of being made a mistress of the Plaintiff. She further requested phone call with Saimond and asked for a meeting in person. 23.At the material time, the Plaintiff’s wife, Mrs. Ip, operated a florist at home. In around early May 2017, the Defendant pretended to be interested in floral decoration and approached Mrs. Ip through WhatsApp. 24.On 17 June 2017, the Defendant sent to Mrs. Ip a message that said “你應該猜到我是誰,想冷靜和你談一談”. 25.According to Mrs. Ip, on 18 June 2017 the Defendant went to the Plaintiff’s home and persistently rang the doorbell, demanding Mrs. Ip to open the door and meet her. As Mrs. Ip was alone in the flat at that time and was horrified by what she perceived as threatening behaviour, Mrs. Ip did not open the door. After the Defendant left the building, Mrs. Ip communicated with the Defendant by text messages and subsequently agreed to meet at Pacific Coffee in Mid-Levels, Hong Kong. 26.During that meeting, the Defendant inquired about Mrs. Ip’s marital status and stated that she had lost two children because of Mrs. Ip. 27.Following the meeting on 18 June 2017, the Defendant continued to contact Mrs. Ip repeatedly via WhatsApp until Mrs. Ip eventually blocked her. According to the Plaintiff, due to these behaviours of the Defendant, the Plaintiff called off a trip that he planned to go together with the Defendant. 28.By July 2017, the Parties’ relationship appeared to have stabilized. On 12 July 2017, the Defendant forwarded to the Plaintiff an email from Hong Kong Wetland Park containing a photograph of the Parties taken together earlier that day. 29.On 18 July 2017 the Defendant sent further photos of the Parties taken together. 30.Between 20 to 24 July 2017, the Defendant travelled to Shanghai. Prior to boarding, she sent an email thanking the Plaintiff for driving her to the airport and stating that she had already begun to miss him. On 21 July, she shared additional photos of herself in an email titled “M* at a Vintage café!” 31.On 30 July 2017, the Defendant sent the Plaintiff an email titled “Baby I have high fever :/”. 32.The Parties continued thereafter to exchange emails about daily life and expressed care and concern for each other. They addressed each other with endearments including “dear” and “baby” and signed off using initials such as “M*”, “P*”, and sometimes “P2”. 33.In October 2017, the Defendant travelled to Toronto over a weekend to attend a wedding. During this period, the Parties exchanged emails expressing that they missed and love each other and shared with each other their daily lives. In the emails the Defendant addressed the Plaintiff as “big baby”, “dear” and singed off as “very very small baby”, “very very small baby M***” and “M*”. Whereas the Plaintiff address the Defendant as “dear”, “little baby”, “sweetheart”, and signed of as “P*”, “Super big P2”, “Big Big P2 baby”, “Your Big baby” and “Your P*”. 34.On 10 October 2017, the Defendant emailed the Plaintiff to settle her flight payment stating “Hi dear, … Could you please help me pay for the below flight? I have too many items on my credit card right now. Thank you. M*”. The flight was from New York to Hong Kong at the cost of USD 1,298.40. 35.On 4 November 2017, 1:17 a.m., the Defendant sent an email captioned “I’m drunk, and at 11:34 a.m. she sent another email captioned “We should talk”. At 2:57 p.m. the same day, she sent an email to the Plaintiff complaining that “You always disappear”. The tension reflected in those messages appeared to have dissipated by the following day, as subsequent exchanges reverted to ordinary daily communications. 36.On 8 November 2017, the Defendant pre-arranged the Plaintiff to pick her up at the “Telephone Box on Robinson Road” at 9:15 a.m. that day. 37.The next day, on 9 November, the Plaintiff emailed the Defendant at 8:38 a.m., saying “Hi dear I hope you have a nice sleep. Going to pick you up from the Telephone Box on Robinson Road at 9 am. Big big P2”. The Defendant replied at 10:04 a.m., saying “So sorry to 連累你 this morning, make you stressed and late for clinic. 謝謝寶貝來車我哦!” 38.On 10 November, the Defendant expressed dissatisfaction with the Plaintiff’s attitude and the forgetfulness over certain matters. The Plaintiff repeatedly apologized and sought forgiveness. At approximately 10:35 p.m., the Defendant wrote: “I need your honest and warm support before I can start over. You are in no position to ask for my care. I loved you like no tomorrow and you lied to me day after day. I lost our baby and you go home to another woman. I am deeply scarred and still bleeding inside every night….” 39.The following morning, on 11 November, the Defendant sent an email to both the Plaintiff and Mrs. Ip expressing strong dissatisfaction with them, stating: “I am tired of being stuck in the middle of your sad marriage…” 40.On 12 November, the Parties agreed to meet up at 10:30 a.m. At night, the Defendant emailed the Plaintiff and said that “I am throwing up a lot after medication” and asked for the Plaintiff to call. 41.By late November and December 2017, the Parties’ messages had averted to routine exchanges of greetings and arrangements for pick-ups at Robinson Road, addressing each other as “big/small baby”. On 20 December, the Defendant wrote: “Hi big big round tummy baby, Thank you again for taking time out of your busy schedule to give me a splendid evening with ballet. I feel so sorry to take so much of your time as I know you are not well lately and have a lot of work piled up. Next time, just come to my home and sleep. No need to date me when life is hectic…” . 42.In late December, there was a brief lull when the Plaintiff neither contacted the Defendant, nor answered her call for one day, prompting the Defendant to question whether he still wished to count down with her on New Year’s Eve. Thereafter the Plaintiff emailed the Defendant multiple times and expressed his care. 43.On the evening of 1 January 2018, continuing into late night and into approximately 3:00 a.m. on 2 January, the Defendant forwarded to Mrs. Ip various email communications between the Parties from 2016 and 2017 in which they had expressed love for each other. In the early hours of 2 January, the Defendant sent further emails expressing anger and included a photograph indicative of self‑mutilation. 44.Later, on 2 January 2018, the Defendant wrote to the Plaintiff “You are worse than rubbish to me. You are a child-killing, pathetic, poor, lying bastard. Please leave me alone. I do not want to see you.” 45.On 4 January 2018, the tension seemed to have eased, as the Defendant wrote an email to the Plaintiff sharing her life and thoughts, addressing the Plaintiff as “big smelly baby” and signed off as “Small and sweet baby M***”. 46.The rest of January passed by smoothly, with sustained exchanges of personal life and mutual care and affection between the Parties. 47.On 5 February 2018, the Defendant asked the Plaintiff to return keys and Octopus card into her mailbox, and addressed him as “Dr Ip” while stating: “Please do not ever contact me on personal basis again. We are only colleagues from now on and I will handle every issue with professionalism without personal favors.” Later the same day, an email captioned “Please leave me alone” was sent to the Plaintiff. According to the Plaintiff, he returned the keys that day, and identified that as the end of their relationship. 48.In the few months that followed, the Parties were apparently back to their regular way of exchanging emails, until the Plaintiff was informed by the Equal Opportunity Officer that the Defendant had lodged the Complaint on 20 August 2018. 49.As explained above, the Parties then agreed to mediate and participated in mediation where they reached agreement on the terms recorded in the Heads of Agreement. Of particular significance is that under the Heads of Agreement the Defendant should, within two working days of the signing of the Mediation Agreement, write to the University and withdraw the Complaint. 50.The Defendant refused to sign the Mediation Agreement drafted by the mediator, and did not withdraw the Complaint. The Plaintiff, who has been able and willing to perform the obligations under the Heads of Agreement, therefore commenced the present action seeking:-
51.Mr. Cheung, counsel for the Plaintiff, confirmed at trial that the Plaintiff would not pursue the claim for damages. The crux of the case is thus whether the Plaintiff is entitled to the first three of the reliefs claimed. B2. The Defendant’s Case 52.According to the Defendant, she moved to Hong Kong in January 2017 to take up a position as Visiting Scholar at the University. Later, the Defendant applied and entered into a long-term employment contract as a Research Assistant Professor with the Department of Psychiatry at the University in September 2017. 53.The Parties had a personal relationship in the form of casual dating between November 2016 and June 2017, coupled with a close working relationship involving multiple collaborations. During the time, the Defendant was unaware that the Plaintiff was a married as he falsely claimed to be a divorced person. 54.It was only until 18 June 2017 when the Plaintiff’s wife met the Defendant at a coffee shop that Mrs. Ip revealed her marital relationship with the Plaintiff. 55.On or about 19 June 2017, the Defendant informed the Plaintiff of her decision to cease their personal relationship and refused to enter any extramarital affair with the Plaintiff. 56.Since shortly after 19 June 2017 until 26 July 2019 (date of signing Heads of Agreement), the Plaintiff had repeatedly, by words and/or action, engaged in a course of conduct (the “Conduct”) causing her worry, emotional distress, annoyance, and/or injury to the Defendant. The pleaded particulars include: -
57.The Defendant alleged that after the mediation on 26 July 2019:-
58.It is alleged that, in the premises, the Plaintiff knew, ought reasonably to have known, or was reckless as to whether the Conduct and Further Conduct would have the aforesaid effects on the Defendant. On that basis, the Defendant counterclaimed against the Plaintiff for loss arising from the damage she suffered as a result of the Plaintiff’s harassment. 59.In Sir Elly Kadoorie & Sons Ltd v Samantha Jane Bradley [2024] 4 HKLRD 428, the Court of Appeal at paragraph 32 set out the elements required to establish a cause of action in the tort of harassment. The victim has to show:-
60.In this regard, as explained above, the Defendant and her witnesses did not attend the trial and provided no evidence in support of the alleged Conduct and Further Conduct. As such, the Defendant’s counterclaim should be dismissed. C. THE AGREED LIST OF ISSUES 61.The Plaintiff’s legal representatives and the Defendant’s former legal representatives previously agreed on the list of issues for trial. The ones that remain relevant after the dismissal of the Defendant’s counterclaim are as follows:
D. ANALYSIS D1. Whether the Heads of Agreement is binding and enforceable? 62.The crucial issue of this case is whether the Heads of Agreement constitutes a binding and enforceable agreement, or whether it is merely an “agreement to agree” contingent upon execution of a later “Mediation Agreement”. 63.The law in this regard is well established. The touchstone is the parties’ intention, assessed objectively from the word used and the parties’ conduct. Lord Clarke explains this in paragraph 45 in the Supreme Court case of RTS Flexible Systems Ltd v Molkerei Alois Müller GmbH & Co KG [2010] 1 WLR 753:
64.There are various possible permutations to the purpose and effect of agreements that envisage a further, more formal, agreement to be signed. These are explained by the High Court of Australia in Masters v Cameron (1954) 91 CLR 353 at 360-361:
65.McLelland J suggests in Baulkham Hills Private Hospital Pty Limited v G R Securities Pty Limited & others (1986) 40 NSWLR 622 that there may be a 4th category:
66.In Yau Shik Yin v Goldrite Ltd and Others HCCW 420/2012, 15 July 2015 Harris J had to consider whether a preliminary settlement agreement which envisaged the signing of a further formal settlement agreement had the effect of creating a binding contract. The relevant Clause V.17 (reproduced in paragraph 17 of the judgment) reads:-
67.Harris J (at paragraphs 22-25) referred to Masters and Baulkham Hills and found the situation within the 1st category, concluding that “I am of the view that [Clause V.17] was simply intended to record that it was envisaged that a formal agreement in the form of a Tomlin order (clause V.9) would be produced and that until that time the Agreement was binding and it could only be altered if all Parties so agreed in writing.”. 68.Applying these principles, I find the Heads of Agreement evinced the parties’ objective intention to be immediately bound (i.e. the 1st category) for the following reasons: -
69.I note that the Defendant had raised a defence along the line that as the Plaintiff had continued to harass the Defendant by engaging in the Further Conduct, the Plaintiff had repudiated the Heads of Agreement, entitling the Defendant to accept such repudiation. The Defendant has therefore been released from the performance of the obligations under the Heads of Agreement. However, as the Defendant and her witnesses did not testify in the trial, and their witness statements had been expunged from the trial bundles, there is no evidence to make good the allegation that the Defendant had committed the Further Conduct and any repudiatory breach of the Heads of Agreement. 70.As such, I find that the Heads of Agreement constituted a binding and enforceable agreement, and that Defendant has breached the Heads of Agreement by refusing to sign the Mediation Agreement and perform the substantive obligations therein. D2. Relief 71.On the question of relief, for the following reasons the Court is satisfied that this is an appropriate case for the specific performance of the substantive obligations under the Heads of Agreement to be ordered.
D3. Authenticity of documents 72.For the sake of completeness, it is noted that:-
73.Mr Cheung produced Annex B to his closing submissions, which lists out items in the Plaintiff’s Notice disputing authenticity of documents disclosed by the Defendant, and Annex C, which lists out item in the Defendant’s Notice disputing authenticity of documents disclosed by the Plaintiff. The items in dispute comprised printouts of the relevant email correspondence and chat messages between the Plaintiff and the Defendant, and between the Defendant and the Plaintiff’s brother Saimond/ Mrs. Ip. 74.Although the parties did not see fit to adduce any expert evidence on the authenticity of the relevant emails, this issue was examined in quite some detail during the Plaintiff’s testimony. The Plaintiff accessed his email accounts in Court and opened the relevant email messages for verification against (i) the documents produced by the Plaintiff, and (ii) the documents produced by the Defendant. The same exercise was performed by the Plaintiff’s brother Saimond and Mrs. Ip in relation to the relevant emails and chat messages. 75.Having gone through the aforesaid exercise, while the precise method of alteration is unknown, the Court observes that in certain instances the Defendant removed content within an email or email chain and altered other contents in the documents produced. 76.At the outset, it is to be noted that in relation to the emails produced by the Plaintiff at trial bundle pp. 1072–1086, the Plaintiff is no longer able to access those emails because they were sent through a University email account accessible by the University staff, as such the Plaintiff deleted the emails as they contained private matters. 77.From item 16 onwards of the Plaintiff’s Notice, the Plaintiff was able to produce corresponding copies of the disputed emails, and he demonstrated in court, by logging into his email account, that the emails in the webmail server corresponded to what he had produced. A few examples would suffice:-
78.Further examples in the Plaintiff’s Notice disputing the authenticity of documents disclosed by the Defendant include:
79.Having considered all the evidence and submissions, the Court finds that where there are disputes as to the authenticity of the documents produced by the Parties, it is the document that the Plaintiff produced that is the authentic version. It is quite obvious to the Court that, somehow, the Defendant was able to produce versions of emails which suggested a less intimate relationship between the Parties. F. Conclusions 80.For the reasons explained above, I shall make the following orders:-
Mr Albert Cheung, instructed by LIMS Solicitors, for the plaintiff The defendant was not represented and did not appear | ||||||||||||||||||||
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